Do you have drama in your relationship? Are you a Drama Queen because it is the only way you can get your guy to do what you want? Every says they hate drama, especially when it comes to their relationships. Why then, do many people who are in relationships engage in so much drama, or when it is not there, create it themselves? People bring drama into their relationships to get power and control over their romantic partner. Drama Kings and Drama Queens make the worst romantic partners because you will never be able to please them. They will never be happy. You could give them the world and all you will get is more drama….and bullying. Do you know how to spot a Drama Queen or Drama King? What is the best course of action you should take if you find yourself in a melodramatic relationship? If you are one of the ones who insists that you don’t want drama in your life, or the emotional ups and downs that consistently go with that, why are you still in a relationship with a Drama Queen or Drama King?
Have you ever noticed that some appearances can be deceiving? We may know someone, work with someone or see someone at the gym who we might think would make a good romantic partner. But would they? You only know them in one context, as a friend, work mate or gym friend and have no idea how they would really perform in a romantic relationship. Before you go off fantasizing about the perfect relationship you could have if you only had your neighbor’s husband or son’s baseball coach, you need to really see and understand that you are only seeing one side of that person. You don’t know them. You only know them as the guy who brings pizza, cleans the pool or cuts the lawn. Sure your co-worker may have his work like together because he makes more sales than anyone else and is on the fast track for promotion, but what is his marriage like? You don’t really know for sure. You don’t really know how any of these people in your life you may project romantic fantasies on really are in a real life relationship. What looks good on the outside, may not be so attractive on the inside, especially when it comes to love. Weds night (May 8th) Sarah and Sophia will be discussing how appearances can be deceiving.
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When it comes to love, there are times when people just allow their logic to go right out the window. They find ways to justify their relationships with emotional logic. With emotional logic, there really is no logic and all decisions, are emotionally based, and make zero sense to the logical mind. By fabricating illogical reasons to stay stuck in unhealthy situations, people are refusing to view their relationships from a realistic place. When you think with your heart and emotions instead of with your brain and your logic, common sense is twisted into excuses you use to justify your bad love and relationship decisions. How do you know if you are using emotional logic to make decisions regarding your relationship? How do you move from a place of thinking with your heart toward logical thinking? Tonight we are talking about emotional logic and why using it just simply DOES NOT MAKE ANY SENSE!
So many people think about creating change in their lives and their relationships to change. Unfortunately, many expect these things to change as the result of a miracle. When we want change in our lives, we have a responsibility to ourselves to be instrumental in creating that change. It is part of the reason we are here, to grow and evolve, and to change what we don’t want or like in our lives, to make them better… to have the lives we want. We can find excuse after excuse to stay stuck and not create the changes we desire and often need, out of our own fears, insecurity or instability. On the other hand, when we do create change, we can often become impatient, expecting the changes we are making to manifest outwardly in a very short period of time, which is very unrealistic. Tonight we will discuss creating the changes you want in your life, what to expect from those changes and why it can take a while to reflect these changes in our lives. Bottom line is REAL CHANGE takes time… do you have what it takes to change your life for the better?
In today’s fast-paced, quick-moving world, so many people seem to want everything right away. Instant oatmeal, instant pudding, faster phones, high-speed this and that, and unfortunately, many also believe they can have instant relationships. When you fall into an instant relationship you are not allowing yourself to get to know your romantic partner, nor allowing them to know you. What happened to the days of allowing things to unfold naturally, while you are dating and learning about each other? What happens when you fall into an instant relationship? The majority of instant relationships are doomed to fail. They just do not have the foundation required to build a lasting loving relationship. They are all about the hype and not about the substance, which is what real love requires.
At times you may find yourself in a relationship with someone who is just not available, either physically or emotionally. Life is just too short to waste on someone who is unavailable, because these guys and girls, are very difficult to be with. When you are emotionally available to them but they are not with you, the relationship will be very unbalanced, dysfunctional and draining. This situation happens quite a bit when it comes to matters of the heart, that the one we love is emotionally unavailable but what can be done about it? Sometimes the relationships we want to work out the most, don’t. Not all emotionally unavailable men will stay that way. Will the one you love ever be emotionally available to you? Is there any way you can help create that change? Loving someone who is emotionally unavailable is very draining because you are doing all the work. They are doing nothing. You are giving and not receiving anything. You can only do that for so long until all your reserves are gone. Sitting back and hoping for change is not going to fix this dysfunctional relationship.
When you are stuck in a difficult situation, waiting for something to change, do you often feel the need to do something? Are you action oriented? A mover and a shaker who just gets things done, and makes things happen? Are there times when you have tried to force something, by taken action, only to see if fall apart? Do you believe that if YOU don’t do something, no one ever will? Do you try to create change, even at the risk of creating a negative change to your situation? There are times and occasions where taking action is a good thing, like when you are preparing for a hurricane. Then again, there are actually times when it is best to stand down, be idle, and do nothing. Doing nothing, can be one of the hardest things to do, but very often the only thing to do, especially where life lessons are involved.
We have been getting a lot of instant feedback on the show lately as well as a lot of email questions to our hotmail account. So we decided to take a break from our usual format and make this show all about you and how we can help you. This weeks show is about answering YOUR questions either through instant feedback, email or call in. Some listeners have told us that they want to hear us do more live readings on the show… and so we have heard you! This show is about YOU. So get those questions and give us a ring at showtime. Or you can always submit your questions on the instant feedback at newskyradio.com while the show is airing. If you are unable to listen live because you live in a different country with a whacky timezone compared to ours, fear not, you can email questions to us at email@example.com. Please bear in mind that we will not be able to answer all the questions we receive but we will do our best to hit as many of them as we can!
This show is all about FREE PSYCHIC READINGS, so now is your opportunity to get your questions answered by both of us, at the same time. If you have not been able to speak to us and need clarity on something, give us a call during show time. Also make use of the Instant feedback option during show time because if we don’t answer it on the air, chances are we will answer it on our Facebook Fan page after the show!! We will talk about the instant feedback option during show time!
Mercury retrograde usually occurs three or four times per year, wreaking havoc upon our personal lives as well as our relationships. Mercury rules communication, travel, the internet and all electronic gadgets. We can expect travel delays, miscommunications, missed communications, computer snafus and crashes, appliances breaking, appointment cancellations and problems with our automobiles. With all the craziness in our communication attempts we usually experience misunderstandings and arguments in our romantic, professional and personal relationships. So how exactly will Mercury effect you? Listen in and find out
During this show we will also be doing FREE PSYCHIC READINGS, so now is your opportunity to get your questions answered by both of us, at the same time. If you have not been able to speak to us and need clarity on something, give us a call during show time.
Defeating fear can be a major obstacle for many people. They say the only thing to fear is fear itself. But fear is a very real thing in all of our lives. We can fear failure and rejection in our personal and professional relationships. Fear and Love are the only two human emotions that truly exist. If we have fear we can not experience love and when we are love, all fears and negative emotions dissipate. Where to do you fall? Do you live with fearful emotions of anger, depression, insecurity, worthlessness and anxiety? Or are you joyful, peace-filled and happy with your life and living in the space of love?
During our broadcast we will discuss how fear can manifest in your romantic relationships and cause you to behave in ways that could be disastrous to your love life. We will discuss how you can start to get control of your fears and the negative emotions that go with that and replace them with love.
We will also be doing FREE PSYCHIC READINGS during the show, so now is your opportunity to get your questions answered by both of us, live and on the air.
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